I have two brothers; one an entrepreneur, the other a costume designer and performer.
Which one of them do you think teased me when I was little?
That's right, the entrepreneur.
One of my brothers played sports in high school, the other participated in drama.
Which one of them do you think comforted me when I had bad dreams?
That's right, the designer and performer.
Which one of my brothers do you think taught me to toughen up and to be somewhat skeptical?
Which one of my brothers taught me to love?
The answer is both.
1 John 4:20
20 If someone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.